"Do Pickup Lines Work?
We have all seen the movies and television shows where the romantically challenged guy goes out to the clubs and bars and uses lame pickup lines in order to get a woman to go home with him. You have probably wondered if these lines actually work in real life. The honest answer is that, usually, no they do not work. The reason for that is because every woman has heard just about every lame come-on line known to man. If she has heard it once before, she is not likely to be interested in you. However, if you have a new one that she has never heard before, it could work. It also could work if she has that type of personality. You just never know.
If you are going to insist on using pickup lines, at least try to find some that you have never heard of before. Chances are, if you have not heard of it, then neither has she. Or you could come up with your own lines to use on the ladies. Either way, the chances that your line will work are very slim.
Women do not want to feel like they are cheap and that is exactly what these lines make women feel. What it says is that you have not taken the time to come up with a proper introduction. Usually all you have to do is walk up to a woman and introduce yourself. That will get you a lot further than saying some cheesy line to get her attention.
If you do find some pickup lines that work for you, then try not to use them on too many women in the same place. If you do that, you run the risk of saying it to the same woman all over again and that will not end well. If the line does not work on one woman, you can probably use it on one other woman in the same bar or club. If it fails after that, I think it is clear that the line does not work and you need to re-evaluate your pickup strategy.
The best advice is just to be yourself. If you are naturally funny, then saying something humorous during your introduction to a woman is not considered to be a line. It is just you being yourself. It is amazing how much a woman will respond to a man who is confident enough to be himself and not hide behind cheesy pickup lines. You just might find the love of your life if you decide to be yourself when you introduce yourself to a woman.